Make Love to Your Day!

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Today is my mistress, my lover. So many people do not even greet their Mornings anymore. They forgot how to love their day, by making love to their day. They roll out of bed, rubbing their eyes – and prodding ahead like robots – just trying to ‘get through’ the morning till they ‘wake up’ and can get on with it. How can there be any passion in that? Passion is the central ingredient to love-making.  How would “just getting through sex” be an enjoyable experience for anyone – by comparison?

I encounter my Morning as my lover. I start with a long, slow, passionate, tender kiss that has no time limit. I’m quite adept at loving her. The passion of this first adoring kiss - causes my Morning to curl up her toes in heated, wet, anticipation of where this may take us next. This is just foreplay to the start of my Day – prologue if you will.

I’ve learned that my life is meant to be a romance. And it is here for the long haul. It will not be a “hopeless” romance but a ‘hopeful’ one if I have any input into it. – And I have ALL the input. But like any lover in a romance, She craves passion. She craves to be lovingly appreciated with an intense invested passion that only She and I can share. We call this intimacy and primacy.

The romance that is my life – She doesn’t just want my sex. She wants my desire. And I delight her in all manner and means of delivering it. It’s too easy and facile to get complacent with any lover. I start making love to my day, in the early passionate kiss I share with ‘Morning.’ I let the passion bloom from there. I don’t just have a romance with my life; I have a fiery flirtation with her as well.

Sometimes Life and I, we share illicit passion, sometimes forbidden pleasures, sometime just mutual-nurturing and fun sexploration. But it’s all there. The Lover that is my Day, she needs ‘action’ in love-making. She craves passion.

 I’ve learned life waits on me like an eager lover. Like any good and eager lover – a show of passion is excitedly returned in kind. I start my day by probing my Morning with foreplay – and she responds, with the kind of passionate and uninhibited titillation of her own.  And now it’s my toes that curl up in excited anticipation of where this may take both of us.

Life wants my passion and romance. She will not forget me – if I don’t forget her. Life reminds me that I was created in a burst of passion – and by romance. So were you.

 So where is the passion for your day?

Are you making love to her/him? Are you letting passion collect dust or settle and die into some kind of ‘routine?’

So many of you live in psychic remorse for dead passions:  You start thinking of all the passions that have died or you let die or let go of. You contemplate things unobtained or undone. You start thinking in regrets – not just of lost loves – but of ‘things’ – things you once loved and treasured but have now learned to live without.  Maybe it was a class you didn’t take – the travel you always planned but never experienced – maybe it was another love you let slip away – it could even be something as simple as that outfit you loved but you didn’t buy, because, well, where would you wear it? Slowly but surely a little passion is subtracted here and there.

Then, there is love from your day you can’t return.

Then, there is a love for your life that may even frighten you.

And there comes eventually from that loss of passion – a love for your day you can no longer express. Those easy loving gestures of yesteryear are now lost in hesitation. The romance you are meant to have with your own life loses ground and loses heat because real-life-demands, force you into choosing prudence - over passion.

But you can reconnect anytime with Life. He/She loves you. He/She is waiting on your passion. He/She will return it in kind. He/She is an amazingly passionate lover. All you need to do is rekindle your romantic impulses, no matter how impractical or implausible.

Connect with your day by starting each morning with foreplay.

Let her know you love her. Don’t tell her, show her.

And show her in a way she cannot soon forget, nor want to. Connect with things that fuel your passions if you must. But remember, your life is meant to be a romance. You don’t need to look anywhere else for it, and you don’t need to go anywhere else to find it. He/She is right here. And like most lovers who have been neglected or taken for granted when it comes to passion – He/She is craving it – in action. So just deliver it.

Don’t allow day to day life to get ahead of you so much as to douse the flames of passion. This day, Today – He/She is a beautiful and eager lover – and He/She only comes once. Passion neglected is passion denied. Eventually those who crave passion, as everyone does, if they don’t receive it, they move on, in mind or spirit to seek some new way or person to fulfill its hunger.

Make love to your day. Start with the Morning. She will respond fervently I promise. She may even surprise you with her prowess .Remind yourself that your life is meant to be a romance: An epic one. What bucket list do you have?  What places do you want to go? What worlds are there for you to conquer? Explore Today, this Morning, as a passionate lover. Touch him/her, caress him/her.

Honour your deep and sacred cravings for romance – by showing some passion.

Your life is meant to be an epic romance. Your Day today is Your Lover. Don’t take him/her for granted, and don’t expect him/her to show you passion, if you don’t express it yourself. But if and when you do – you will find a mutually invigorating and expressed passion that climaxes in a mutually pleasurable explosion of action – that leaves you both blissfully exhausted from the investment.

Make love to your day.

Then renew it tomorrow.